Dear Heavenly Father, in the Mighty name of Jesus, I thank you for my life and for your unconditional love. I confess that, because of what I’ve experienced in the past, I no longer want to experience dating troubles.
Because of ignorance, in the past I took relationship matters in my own hands. But that has caused me a lot of hurt. I have chosen the wrong men/women because I never consulted for YOUR will.
I have experienced rejection and disappointment. But because of YOUR mercy and grace, I am free, at peace and am at a good place now. It is my desire that YOU become my Teacher during this sometimes lonely but worthwhile single journey.
I am convinced without a shadow of doubt that your timing is always perfect. And that is your will that this season that I reflect on my past mistakes and prepare myself for my Boaz/Ruth.
Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Proverbs 4:5 Get wisdom; get insight; do not forget, and do not turn away from the words of my mouth.
Confession to God
Dear Lord, I sometimes become lonely. Teach me your ways, Lord to be content in the fullness of YOUR presence.
Teach me O Lord to trust that it is within this very season that you will strip me of all my unrighteousness, Heal my doubtful mind that I will learn to fully understand and feel what it means to be a virtuous woman or man of great character.
Saturate me with your anointing
I pray that You O Lord will saturate me in YOUR anointing to diligently use this season to reflect on YOUR word. May I be the man/woman YOU have ordained me to be for my coming queen/master.
But, above all I pray that I do not, for a split second, forget that YOU ARE THE MASTER OF MASTERS. And you will always be the Alpha and Omega of the foundation that You have established me for.
Philippians 2:12) God is at work in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.
Philippians 2:13 For it is not your strength, but it is God who is effectively at work in you, both to will and to work that is, strengthening, energizing, and creating in you the longing and the ability to fulfill your purpose for His good pleasure.
Prayer for accepting and dealing on past hurt
I fully accept that I have been hurt. And in some occasions I have hurt others in previous relationships. So help me to fully examine my past wisely and not carry past mistakes into my next relationship.
Give me strength to be my masters helper/ queens helper, to love, respect and carry out wifely/husband duties as per YOUR will and not as this world sees fit. Heavenly Father, please grant me wisdom during this seasonal to learn how to submit, have patience, to love and respect as per the will of God.
Grant me grace O Lord to discern between the wolves in sheeps clothing and the person you have called me to have a future with. A future that is based on pleasing God, a future that is based on God’s timing and trust. A future where we bring up our children in the ways of the Lord.
O father in Jesus name, I am just a mere human. But YOU O LORD grant great and marvelous things. Stir up my faith, as I live in a world where sex is overrated and purity is seen as a waste of time.
To know that no matter how many comments I see or hear on different social media’s that my hope in YOU will not weaver.
James 4:7 Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.
Philippians 4:7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Prayer for those needing courage and strength in their single walk
Give me strength to encourage others going through the same single seasonal journey of your assurance as that they shall testify. For them to know that they too are loved and that they should patiently wait on YOU Lord to mold them in the man/woman YOU want them to be in this season.
But above all, to also know that no matter how they see their friends or family members getting married that YOU O Lord will remain their author and finisher of their love story. That they shall not be shaken, they shall not be envious, they shall not lose hope.
Because their entire hope is in You precious Jesus. I thank you for the guidance of the Holy Spirit that this time we desire to do things differently. That this time the presence of the LORD is our rock. I thank YOU beautiful, glorious, miracle working Father in Jesus name I pray. Amen
Isaiah 40:31 But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.
Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
This is the day the Lord has made and I shall rejoice in it. My Spirit is open to receive. My mind is focused on the word of God. I am a conqueror in Christ my Lord. My trust and hope is in God. I only have to ask to receive. Therefore I will wait upon the Lord with the assurance that it is FINISHED. In Jesus Mighty name I pray. Amen!